For some people, doesnt matter if you work hard: your efforts will never be enough. They dont care if you did a lot in the past or how much you do now to get the same results. You need to do the same - or even better - till the day you die. But if you feel hurt with this kind of behavior it is because you still expect something from them. People dont hurt you, your expectations do. We cannot satisfy everyone, we cannot be in all places at the same time. If you give all your precious life to these people, in the end you will get sick, alone and useless and they will not even say a word. Most of people only care for their own problems and some use this as an excuse to think that they have the right to judge others. But they forget that they are made of flesh and blood as anybody else.