Oh! And yesterday was my birthday!!! Many friends have called me and have sent me so many good wishes. It is PRICELESS!!! Im so happy for that! And I wish for all a long and happy life :)!!! But I couldnt have a party..I was working till late!
Anyways I was waiting for someone in my work when I took a book and I have started reading it. It was a text from Arnaldo Jabor.
The director and journalist Arnaldo Jabor was born in Rio de Janeiro in 1940. He was already a technician of sound, critic of theater, scriptwriter and director of short and long movies. In the decade of 90, by force of the circumstances dictated by the government Fernando Collor of Mello, that scrapped the national cinematographic output, Jabor was obliged to find new routes and found in the journalism his livelihood. He inaugurated like columnist of O GLOBO in the end of 1995 and later led for the TV Globo, in the Jornal Nacional news and in the Bom Dia Brasil (all from Globo Company - the best and the biggest one company of media in Brazil) the ironic style with that comments the facts of the brazilian present time.
This text is about how people make life harder than it already is..relax! Sure it doen'st mean to be an alienated person..just relax and live life in the best way you can! And being happy with the small things...
Now..I'm gonna paste the text in both languages..portuguese and english..cause i couldnt do it in my page in orkut cause it is too long..
Here it goes....
SEJA UM IDIOTA- Arnaldo Jabor
Gente chata essa que quer ser séria, profunda e visceral sempre. Putz! A vida já é um caos, por que fazermos dela, ainda por cima, um tratado? Deixe a seriedade para as horas em que ela é inevitável: mortes, separações, dores e afins.
No dia-a-dia, pelo amor de Deus, SEJA IDIOTA!
Ria dos próprios defeitos, e de quem acha defeitos em você! Ignore o que "aquela" pessoa boçal disse, pense assim: quem tem que carregar aquela cara feia, todos os dias, inseparavelmente, é ele ou ela... pobre dele ou dela.Milhares de casamentos acabaram-se não pela falta de amor, dinheiro, sexo, sincronia, mas pela ausência de idiotice.
Trate seu amor como seu melhor amigo, e pronto. Quem disse que é bom dividirmos a vida com alguém que tem conselho pra tudo, soluções sensatas, mas não consegue rir quando tropeça? Alguém que sabe resolver uma crise familiar, mas não tem a menor idéia de como preencher as horas livres de um fim de semana? Quanto tempo faz que você não vai ao cinema?
É bem comum gente que fica perdida quando se acabam os problemas. E daí, o que elas farão se já não têm por que se desesperar? Desaprenderam a brincar!! Eu não quero alguém assim comigo. Você quer? Espero que não. Tudo que é mais difícil é mais gostoso, mas... A realidade já é dura; piora se for densa. Dura, densa, e bem ruim.
Brincar é legal! Entendeu? Esqueça o que te falaram sobre ser adulto, tudo aquilo de não brincar com comida, não falar besteira, não ser imaturo, não chorar, não andar descalço, não tomar chuva. Pule corda!
Adultos podem (e devem) contar piadas, passear no parque, rir alto e lamber a tampa do iogurte. Ser adulto não é perder os prazeres da vida - e esse é o único "não" realmente aceitável. Teste a teoria. Uma semaninha, para começar. Veja e sinta as coisas como se elas fossem o que realmente são: passageiras.
Acorde de manhã e decida entre duas coisas: ficar de mau humor e transmitir isso adiante ou sorrir... Bom mesmo é ter problema na cabeça, sorriso na boca e paz no coração! Aliás, entregue os problemas nas mãos de Deus e que tal um cafezinho gostoso agora?
"A vida é uma peça de teatro que não permite ensaios. Por isso cante, chore, dance e viva intensamente antes que a cortina se feche".
BE AN IDIOT - Arnaldo Jabor
Boring people is who wants to be grave, deep and visceral always. Gosh! Life is already a chaos, why do we need to make it a treaty? Leave the seriousness for those moments what are inevitable: deaths, detachments, pains and related.
But in your everyday life, by the love of God, BE AN IDIOT!
Laugh at your own defects, and whose finds defects in you! Ignore what "that" rude person said and think like this: who should carry that ugly face, every day, inseparably, is he or she... poor of him or of her! Thousands of marriages finished itself not by the absence of love, money, sex, synchronization, but by the absence of idiocy.
Treat your love as your best friend, and that’s all. Who said that is good we share the life with someone who has an advice for everything, sensible solutions, but doesn’t laugh of his own trips? Someone who knows to resolve a family crisis, but doesn’t have a single idea how to fill the free hours of a weekend? How long don’t you go to a movie?
It is pretty usual people who stay lost when their problems are finished. So, what will they do if they do not have anything to be despaired? They forgot how to play!!! And I don’t want someone like this with me. Do you? I hope you don’t. Everything that is more difficult is more pleasant, but... The reality is already hard and get worst if it getting dense. Hard, dense, and too bad.
Playing is nice!! Got it? Forget what they told you about "being an adult", all that talk about "don’t play with food", "do not speak stupidity", "don’t be immature", "do not cry", "do not walk barefoot", "do not take rain". Play with a jump rote!
Adults are able to tell jokes, walk in the park, laugh high and lick the cover of the yoghurt. Being an adult doesn’t mean to lose the pleasures of life - and that is the unique "no" really acceptable. Test the theory. Just for a week to beginning. See and feel things as they would what they really are: passing.
Wake up in the morning and decide between two things: staying with a bad mood and transmit that ahead or smiling... Good is having a problem in the head, smile in the mouth and peace in the heart! By the way, leave your problems at the God’s hands.. and what about a pleasant small black coffee now?
"Life is a play that does not permit attempt. So sing, cry, dance and cheer intensely before the drapery is filed".
err..sorry for my english :P
Anyways I was waiting for someone in my work when I took a book and I have started reading it. It was a text from Arnaldo Jabor.
The director and journalist Arnaldo Jabor was born in Rio de Janeiro in 1940. He was already a technician of sound, critic of theater, scriptwriter and director of short and long movies. In the decade of 90, by force of the circumstances dictated by the government Fernando Collor of Mello, that scrapped the national cinematographic output, Jabor was obliged to find new routes and found in the journalism his livelihood. He inaugurated like columnist of O GLOBO in the end of 1995 and later led for the TV Globo, in the Jornal Nacional news and in the Bom Dia Brasil (all from Globo Company - the best and the biggest one company of media in Brazil) the ironic style with that comments the facts of the brazilian present time.
This text is about how people make life harder than it already is..relax! Sure it doen'st mean to be an alienated person..just relax and live life in the best way you can! And being happy with the small things...
Now..I'm gonna paste the text in both languages..portuguese and english..cause i couldnt do it in my page in orkut cause it is too long..
Here it goes....
SEJA UM IDIOTA- Arnaldo Jabor
Gente chata essa que quer ser séria, profunda e visceral sempre. Putz! A vida já é um caos, por que fazermos dela, ainda por cima, um tratado? Deixe a seriedade para as horas em que ela é inevitável: mortes, separações, dores e afins.
No dia-a-dia, pelo amor de Deus, SEJA IDIOTA!
Ria dos próprios defeitos, e de quem acha defeitos em você! Ignore o que "aquela" pessoa boçal disse, pense assim: quem tem que carregar aquela cara feia, todos os dias, inseparavelmente, é ele ou ela... pobre dele ou dela.Milhares de casamentos acabaram-se não pela falta de amor, dinheiro, sexo, sincronia, mas pela ausência de idiotice.
Trate seu amor como seu melhor amigo, e pronto. Quem disse que é bom dividirmos a vida com alguém que tem conselho pra tudo, soluções sensatas, mas não consegue rir quando tropeça? Alguém que sabe resolver uma crise familiar, mas não tem a menor idéia de como preencher as horas livres de um fim de semana? Quanto tempo faz que você não vai ao cinema?
É bem comum gente que fica perdida quando se acabam os problemas. E daí, o que elas farão se já não têm por que se desesperar? Desaprenderam a brincar!! Eu não quero alguém assim comigo. Você quer? Espero que não. Tudo que é mais difícil é mais gostoso, mas... A realidade já é dura; piora se for densa. Dura, densa, e bem ruim.
Brincar é legal! Entendeu? Esqueça o que te falaram sobre ser adulto, tudo aquilo de não brincar com comida, não falar besteira, não ser imaturo, não chorar, não andar descalço, não tomar chuva. Pule corda!
Adultos podem (e devem) contar piadas, passear no parque, rir alto e lamber a tampa do iogurte. Ser adulto não é perder os prazeres da vida - e esse é o único "não" realmente aceitável. Teste a teoria. Uma semaninha, para começar. Veja e sinta as coisas como se elas fossem o que realmente são: passageiras.
Acorde de manhã e decida entre duas coisas: ficar de mau humor e transmitir isso adiante ou sorrir... Bom mesmo é ter problema na cabeça, sorriso na boca e paz no coração! Aliás, entregue os problemas nas mãos de Deus e que tal um cafezinho gostoso agora?
"A vida é uma peça de teatro que não permite ensaios. Por isso cante, chore, dance e viva intensamente antes que a cortina se feche".
BE AN IDIOT - Arnaldo Jabor
Boring people is who wants to be grave, deep and visceral always. Gosh! Life is already a chaos, why do we need to make it a treaty? Leave the seriousness for those moments what are inevitable: deaths, detachments, pains and related.
But in your everyday life, by the love of God, BE AN IDIOT!
Laugh at your own defects, and whose finds defects in you! Ignore what "that" rude person said and think like this: who should carry that ugly face, every day, inseparably, is he or she... poor of him or of her! Thousands of marriages finished itself not by the absence of love, money, sex, synchronization, but by the absence of idiocy.
Treat your love as your best friend, and that’s all. Who said that is good we share the life with someone who has an advice for everything, sensible solutions, but doesn’t laugh of his own trips? Someone who knows to resolve a family crisis, but doesn’t have a single idea how to fill the free hours of a weekend? How long don’t you go to a movie?
It is pretty usual people who stay lost when their problems are finished. So, what will they do if they do not have anything to be despaired? They forgot how to play!!! And I don’t want someone like this with me. Do you? I hope you don’t. Everything that is more difficult is more pleasant, but... The reality is already hard and get worst if it getting dense. Hard, dense, and too bad.
Playing is nice!! Got it? Forget what they told you about "being an adult", all that talk about "don’t play with food", "do not speak stupidity", "don’t be immature", "do not cry", "do not walk barefoot", "do not take rain". Play with a jump rote!
Adults are able to tell jokes, walk in the park, laugh high and lick the cover of the yoghurt. Being an adult doesn’t mean to lose the pleasures of life - and that is the unique "no" really acceptable. Test the theory. Just for a week to beginning. See and feel things as they would what they really are: passing.
Wake up in the morning and decide between two things: staying with a bad mood and transmit that ahead or smiling... Good is having a problem in the head, smile in the mouth and peace in the heart! By the way, leave your problems at the God’s hands.. and what about a pleasant small black coffee now?
"Life is a play that does not permit attempt. So sing, cry, dance and cheer intensely before the drapery is filed".
err..sorry for my english :P
